January has lasted for seven years. I am sure of it. How is it not over yet? Christmas and New Year feel like forever ago. Will it EVER end?!
It’s been a very gentle start to the year for me which is just what I wanted. I have been saving energy, sleeping and building myself back up. I have watched lots of TV, films, movies, completed a good amount of candy crush and had a good online shop (without checking out of course). It is January after all.
I have continued to struggle to come up with ideas and inspiration to write my blog. I have wanted to, with all my heart. I love posting an update, love getting out there all my latest issues, thoughts and feelings down on paper (well screen!) but I haven’t been able to pave a way through to say anything or produce anything. I have taken this as a positive. Maybe the nature of the blog is changing along with my life. This is after all my 21st published blog post! At one point I didn’t think that I could achieve one. I can’t believe how far I have travelled in such a short space of time with the blog but also in myself. Turns out I was down but I was never out. Even if some days it felt very much like it.
All the jobs I had in mind to be done by the end of this month are about 25% complete but that’s not bad. At least I have done some! They aren’t urgent or pressing they just need to be done at some point. My life has not got the same sense of urgency these days. It’s definitely an adjustment but one I am almost used to now.
I think that’s one of the reasons I don’t drink as much these days. Less stress in my day to day life!! For sure, all of this is hugely stressful overall and I have terrible anxiety some days, sometimes for no reason, sometimes because my breathing is off or I feel vulnerable, scared and frustrated but I think the daily day to day stress is less. Despite all of these machines, equipment and medication keeping me alive! Feels like a strange thing to acknowledge.
I sometimes worry the more tired and solitary I am, the more I relax into this lifestyle the harder it is to be motivated to do things and I will get too used to it. That I don’t get lazy both mentally and physically. Certainly, I can’t go on a big walk or run around or do anything of that ilk but I need to make sure I move around as much as I can physically tolerate. It worries me but by being conscious of it hopefully means I won’t let it happen.
Someone asked me the other day how I was doing and how I was coping. Despite the pneumonia and getting over that, I am so tired which is a struggle, I feel OK with it all. Yes, I continue to be frustrated and fed up and feel isolated and bored at times but the regimen and the routine of the treatment feels more natural. I am just getting on with it and have no strong feelings either way (good or bad). I am just thankful for it helping me continue to breathe and get over these nasty infections and virus’.
I have bought a new bed which comes next week. We have had to go for an adjustable bed because I am now sleeping so propped up that it’s having a bad effect on my back, neck and hips. This one properly raises me up whilst supporting the body properly. Its fancy fancy and so comfortable. Another of those mental hurdles to get over having to have a bed like this. But if it means my body is more supported, I am more comfortable and the hubs gets a bit more room back in the bed as currently he has to sleep around my mountainous pile of pillows, then its a winner all round.
I had a great appointment with the extensive care team last week who are going to look to find ways to help my illness, make things a bit easier and already have come up with some good positive ideas and things I can do. They can’t get rid of this disease and they openly admit it but they want to make my life smoother and help me build up, grow in strength to help me fight it all and stay as well as possible. I feel really positive about it and so thankful to the nurse practitioner at my doctor’s surgery who thought to recommend and refer me.
Rock and roll my life may not be currently, but I am all for an easy time of it these days. I am happy with this peace, quiet and gently gently start to the year. Now if January would like to hurry up and do one we can all get into seeing what February 2019 has to offer.